Read Proverbs 13:1 through 16:33
Anger is a strong emotion that can have negative consequences if not managed correctly. One negative way that anger can manifest itself is through our speech. An angry person tries to tackle a problem through an overpowering response.
Gentleness is strength under control. A gentle person attempts to bring resolution to conflict through a firm and well-reasoned response.
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger (Proverbs 15:1).
A gentle answer is not a weak answer. Like a steel rod covered with foam, it firmly states the truth without complicating the problem. The gentle answer may not immediately solve a situation, but it does help keep the problem from getting worse. Anger may be your inner reaction, but gentleness should be your response.
If you are provoked, take a deep breath, say a brief prayer, and think about what you are going to say. Speaking fewer words which are aptly chosen and expressed with less emotion can diffuse anger and potentially bring a resolution to conflict.
Prayer Suggestion:
Lord, help me to respond gently when I am provoked.
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